The adultering parent has a mixed up idea of right and wrong. These are the obvious messages the children get by observing the behavior of the adulterer…..
- It’s alright if I screw my spouses’ GOOD friend
- It is NOT alright for your other parent to parent you-even though they are your parent.
- I will not parent you right now-so I will NOT allow your other parent to either.
- Anything you do is okay with me as long as it is NOT okay with your other parent.
- I will NOT take you to church-but you MUST go to church at your local church when it’s your other parents’ weekend. Therefore your other parent must bring you home EARLY-so you can miss church!?!?
- I can work LONG hours and skip fixing a meal-your other parent must abide by all the rules.
- I will demand court ordered protections then cry to the children about their stubborn other parent for NOT stepping over boundaries set in place by me.
- Even though your other parent provided these items for YOU-they are now MINE to help in my divorce manipulations.
- When things get hard the best thing to do is find someone with MORE money.
- It’s always good to appear as the victim-even though that is NOT taking personal responsibility.
- It’s okay to lie-if you get caught-lie some more!
- It’s not my fault I’m like this-so is my parent-and grandparent….
- It’s okay to quit-I did.
- Your other parent is bad-I AM good.
- Listen to my voice-not my actions.
- If there are problems-BLAME your other parent!
- If I make a big enough deal out of every issue-the children will not
SEE the evil I do.
Oh what tangled webs we weave...
...when first we practice to deceive.
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